I FORGIVE U WHOLEHEARTEDLY

Before I forgave anyone myself or helped others to learn to forgive, I used to think that forgiveness only benefited the offender. In the process of struggling with forgiveness, I have found that it is my own soul that receives the graetest benefit from forgiving others.
What does it mean to truly forgive? forgiveness is a process. You can begin the forgiveness process today.For deep offences, it may take years to experience the full freedom of forgiveness. I compare forgiveness to peeling the layers of an onion. You can dig deeply and take off many layers at once, but there are lots of thin layers as well, which makes forgiveness a process of patiently addressing issues that come up.
Forginess is a decesion. The most important contribution you can make in the process of forgiveness is to trust God wholeheartedly to make the decision to forgive. In human matters, forgiveness comes down to a decision. It's important to trust that God knows more than you do and that forgiving the person who hurts you will eventually heal you.